Tips for a successful intervention

Tips for a successful intervention

1. Plan ahead
2. include family and friends who are especially important to the addict
3. Set a time, date, and place to do the intervention
4. Get everyone together for a practice run prior to the intervention
5. Choose a rehab BEFORE the intervention and have bags packed and ready to go
6. Plan transportation to the rehab after
7. THe best time to hold an intervention is after a bad event (job loss or spouse leaving)
8. Remove enablers
9. Avoid statements like "feel sorry"
10. Be prepared to take away privileges if possible (car, free housing, money)
11. Get addict to talk about the future and goals
12. Stay positive, avoid yelling or becoming angry

Swanson, M., (2014). Intervention tips. Ehow. Retrieved from: http://www. ehow.com/list_7603921_intervention-tips.html

What to expect from an Al-anon or Alateen Meeting

Al-anon and Alateen are good programs or family members and friends of an addict or alcoholic. For those who are not aware of how the twelve step programs work, this is an excellent place to learn. These programs are designed very similar to the twelve step programs of Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous. The meetings allow its members to share their experiences with one another. Rather than give advice, they listen to one another's stories and decide for themselves to take and apply whatever lessons they chose to from what they hear. THe meetings offer contact with others experiencing very similar circumstances. Members often start to see commonality right away. Alateen is the same as Al-anon but its members are teens. Some people experience discomfort attending the first meeting. Some things you can expect from the meetings are: readings and discussions about the twelve steps, learning about "higher power", listening to others share their experiences, you will be given an opportunity to share, but you are free to say "I pass," and the opportunity to learn how you can help the alcoholic or addict in your life while helping yourself.

Al-Anon family groups. (2014). Strength and hope for friends and families of problem drinkers. Retrieved from:http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/about-group-meetings/what-can-i-expect

Where to Hold an Intervention

Some places to hold an intervention:
Loved ones house- This will give the addict a sense of security and comfort.
Healthcare facility- This will surround them with a sense of hope.
Neutral location- A reserved restaurant or conference room. It is important to make sure the place is private and wont have any distractions.

(Dec. 5, 2001). Intervention support. Where should an intervention be held? Retrieved from: http://www.interventionsupport.com

What to Include in an Intervention Letter

The letter should start simple and come from the heart. It should express love for the addict and show genuine concern. It should discuss the good times you remember about them when they made you proud. Maybe a time they were helpful to you. This approach should keep them from being on guard and getting angry. Next, is an option part of the letter. tThis will include your understanding of addiction as a disease and your desire for them to get professional help in a rehabilitation facility.Next, you should offer your first hand experience with them of the bad times. Then, you should repeat your love and concern for them and ask they accept the help.

Jay, J., (2008). How to write an intervention letter- love first. intervention for alcoholism and addiction. Retrieved from: http://www.lovefirst.net